内向又害羞的你，如何与邻里建立联系？

较难

初中二年级

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人际关系

尽管在现地址居住了多年，您可能依旧未能建立起丰富的社交联系。对于性格文静且内向的人来说，可以如何在不离开自己的舒适区的情况下逐渐增进与邻居的关系？本文分享了一些适合这类人的邻里互动策略。

I have lived in my present house for 11 years. But I know very little about my neighbors. It’s not that I don’t want to know my neighbors. I am just quiet and shy. While some people are happy to invite the whole street to a dinner party, some of us will never be that outgoing. Here are a few ways for the rest of us.

我在现在的房子里住了11年了。但我对我的邻居知之甚少。并不是我不想认识我的邻居。我只是很安静和害羞。虽然有些人很乐意邀请整条街的人来参加晚宴，但我们中的一些人永远不会那么外向。这里有一些适合我们这类其他人的方法。

The easiest way to get to know the people in your neighborhood is to go outside. Spend time in your front yard at a certain time. Sit in front of the door at the same time every day and finally someone will say hello. If you feel strange just sitting there, pick up a hobby that you can do in your front yard, like reading, bird watching, or drinking tea.

了解邻居最简单的方法就是到外面去。在特定的时间花点时间在你的前院。每天同一时间坐在门前，最终会有人跟你打招呼。如果你觉得坐在那里很奇怪，那就在你的前院培养一个你可以做的爱好，比如读书、观鸟或喝茶。

Then, you can look for community activities that you can drop into, chat a little, and leave whenever you want. When there is an activity going on, the focus won’t be on you, making it easier to communicate with people. Try five minutes; if you have to bail, no one will notice.

然后，你可以寻找你可以加入的社区活动，聊聊天，然后随时离开。当有活动在进行时，焦点不会在你身上，这样与人交流就更容易了。试五分钟;如果你要离开，没人会注意到的。

If you are interested in gardening, you will notice the neighbors who are also into gardening. Ask them about their garden! Asking questions is the easiest way to connect because you are placing the focus on the other person. If you have a dog, talk to other dog people on your walks. If you have a kid, ask other parents about stuff to do with kids.

如果你对园艺感兴趣，你会注意到邻居们也对园艺感兴趣。问问他们的花园!问问题是最简单的沟通方式，因为你把注意力放在了对方身上。如果你养了一只狗，在散步的时候和其他养狗的人聊天。如果你有孩子，向其他父母询问与孩子有关的事情。